Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and it’s the perfect opportunity to talk about something I love and that’s lingerie. I remember getting old enough to shop at Victoria’s Secret and finally getting my own catalogs to flip through, picking out what seemed like thousand of items I wanted and finally placing those orders. Today I still feel the pull.
Whether you’re shopping just to make yourself happy or buying something to share with someone special here’s some helpful tips.
1. The Correct size is critical – Did you know most women are wearing the wrong size bra? Fit is key to looking great and feeling confident. If you have any doubts you can get measured at a lingerie shop or department store, it never hurts to have a professional fitting.
2. Just like with your clothes, choose lingerie that will accentuate the positive and minimize anything you’d like minimized. There is a shape and style for everyone so if you’ve got killer abs, a chest to die for, or legs that go on for days, you’ll be able to show off your best features.
3. Do you like plain and sweet, sultry and seductive, or I’m the one in charge here? No matter what, it’s totally fine to stick with the style you’re comfortable with but this is also the perfect time to experiment. You never know what you might like until you try it. There’s no right or wrong. A bra and panties, or a simple tank and shorts can be just as sexy as a corset with garters and 6-inch heels. Pick one or try several and change it up, you might enjoy yourself.
4. While there are many online choices you might want to consider visiting a local shop, you’ll be able to talk to a person who knows what they are doing and wants to help you find what you’re looking for.
5. Don’t be afraid to ask questions when you shop. The choices can seem overwhelming but there’s help to guide you through the choices. Don’t know the difference between a bustier and a corset, curious about what to do with that garter belt, don’t be shy, the sales team is waiting to help you.
6. Treat yourself. You are definitely worth it. Don’t worry about others; they will like it, if you choose to share. If it’s just for you to enjoy, go ahead and enjoy.
7. Share or don’t share whatever makes you comfortable. It can make you smile to know that you are wearing something super sexy underneath your clothes. It can be your secret.